Mr. Playoff Pimp... Good looking guy, Not gorgeous.. but good looking meets me at the bar 3 weeks ago.
He manages to get me to give him my number and offers to take me to a Jazz Playoff game against Denver. I was super excited because I've never been to a playoff game.
So we are talking back and forth getting to know each other a little bit.. the night comes for the game.
I confirm with him that we are going, shower, get ready and wait for him to let me know where were are supposed to meet up to go to the game.
Time passes... he finally says something along the lines of "we may have a little problem, I hope you won't be upset" - so I ask him what is going on and he proceeds to tell me that the friends of his that were flying in to go to the game thought he had 6 tickets when he only has 4, and that he needed to give them the tickets that he and I were going to use.
It wasn't a big deal to me at the time because I had originally planned to go watch the game at a friends' house. So I drove to the friend's house and watched the game..
Mean while he is texting me saying that "I will make it up to you" "we will go to the next playoff game"
So, during the week that Jazz were away playing in Denver we hung out things went pretty well, he seems like an okay guy... brags about his "money" "cars" and "connections" a lot during this time (which by the way does not flatter me in the slightest)- when guys brag about that stuff it usually means they are used to getting girls simply by what they "have"- not based off of who they are. So I was a little hesitant to continue things but he did promise we would go to the next home game. (Said several times that "this will not happen again)
Time comes for the next playoff game and I am super excited. I confirm with him that we are going around 4pm. He says we will be meeting up around 7:30 so I rush home from work, get ready, and have some time to spare so I headed to the mall until 7:30
7:45 rolls around and I get a text from him saying "I am soooo annoyed"
I in turn ask him why he is annoyed and he says "I am supposed to pick up these people from the airport and take them to the game but their flight is late"
I said "what time was their flight supposed to be there?"
He says "7:00"
So I ask him how much longer he thinks he will be.. he said he would let me know when they were in the car.
I told him that I guess I would go get dinner then and hopefully he would be done around halftime so we could get to the 2nd half of the game.
I go eat dinner at Zuppas- (was delicious) and then I was going to go to Skybox to watch the game but I was so pissed that I was waiting around and not AT the game that I didn't even feel like watching it. By this time it is 9:00.
I text him to find out what his status is.. he said "I am still downtown- I just dropped them off and now I have to hurry home and get ready"
I said "so like a half hour?"
He said "no I I'm not even dressed!"
9:50 rolls around and I ask him "how much longer"
He says "20 min"
This makes me FURIOUS!
I told him "by the time you get ready the game will be over, guess this was a waste of my night - I think I will just go home"
He then proceeds to get upset with me and says "Oh so what is more important the GAME or ME? - We can still go hang out!"
(I hope someone enjoyed our "3rd ROW SEATS"- that he was claiming to have tickets for- cause I am pretty sure there would be no EMPTY seats on the 3rd row of a very crucial Playoff game)
Mr. Playoff Pimp text me for the first time since that night -Yesterday - Almost one week after the incident.
Telling me how SORRY he was.. that he APOLOGIZES... that he wants to MAKE IT UP TO ME...
Look dude- First time I gave you the benefit of the doubt that things weren't going to work out. Then you sit there and "promise" that it will not happen again and that we will go to the next game. Then the time comes for you to PROVE that it won't happen again and you FAIL big time.
Why on earth would I want to see if it will happen a THIRD time.. ???
Men are used to women that they can walk ALL OVER- like door mats.. well let me tell you fellas..
I am NO LONGER one of those women. I am stronger and more confident than I ever used to be.. and I DON'T deserve to be stood up by any man.
Mr. Playoff Pimp...You are Lucky I gave you a second chance.. I find it funny that you think you deserve a third....
3 comments:
this guy isn't a man.... he's a little unorganized child who can't think ahead. This is a perfect example of a retard that gives men a bad name. Now a days, women think that we are just so horrible human beings all in general! but HEY! WE ARE NOT ALL THE SAME WAY!!! and those who know me as well as the other good men out there... they know we are not like this dude. We have values and know how to treat a girl the right way.
Seriously, if you go to a bar and some dude approaches you, bottom line.... all he wants is a piece of THE GOODS!! a sex buddy!!! nothing more. You're better than that Michelle. Next time you and some dude asks you for your number, no matter how good looking he is, KICK HIS PRETTY BOY BUTT TO THE CURVE!!!!
This guy continued to beg and plead to "make it up to me" and "give him another chance" that "I wouldn't regret it" for several weeks after this incodent. I ignored him because he obviously isn't worth my time.. and he still proceeded to try and get me to call or text him back so he could "explain how sorry he was"
He then sent me a message saying that "he was reported to about how I was dancing at Hotel looking all sexy"
WTF- who has people spy on people.. that is freakin creepy dude..
YOU FUCKED UP- DEAL WITH IT!
Dude sounds like a jackass. A true jackass.
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