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Friday, May 7, 2010

Goodbye Losers.. I don't need you anymore

So, I have had a revelation that I've been on a pretty bad string of luck when it comes to men and dating. (as you guys can see)

A key factor in this (I believe) is where I am meeting some of these "men" - at the BAR.

I am making a pact to myself... No longer will I be giving my number out to any man I meet at the bar.. and no longer will I be getting any of their numbers.

I figure.. if a guy is REALLY interested in more than a "good time" or "one-night" rendezvous then they will be smart enough to figure out a way to track down my information. PERIOD

I really am interested in finding men of higher caliber, who have CAREERS - not jobs, and who have GOALS for their future.. that will actually take them somewhere in life.

I will not settle for anything less... after-all.. after what I've been through over the last 10 years.. I damn well deserve an AMAZING man who is going to treat me the way I deserve.

I will obviously still continue to blog about my adventures- so don't you worry... there will still be lots of stories to come!












2 comments:

Ben Garcia said...

Hmmm. this one was very interesting. In my personal opinion, A bar is no place for anyone to find a soul mate or just a simple boyfriend. I mean, honestly I've never been to one in my life but from what I hear from other people. There's just really nothing at bars unless you just want to meet up and drink up, and if interested have sex at the end of the night.... but that's about it. So, maybe trying something else to meet guys might just work for you other than bars or clubs. Red I think you're an amazing girl and I truly wish you the best and know that you'll find what you're looking for in a time where you lest expect it.

HASTA LUEGO CHICA! :-)

ciege said...

I think that finding a good guy at a bar is very rare... I have a friend who meet her husband at Port O Call, and he is a great guy, but she got lucky. Overall, it's definitely just a place for people to drink and then hook-up, so good boyfriend potential is very low. You will find the right guy in time... I know it :)