Haven't written about some recent dates in while but I have been on some. Here are some key take-away Do's and Don'ts: (not all particularly on the same date)
Here are the Do's:
- Show that you are good at something - me losing is better than you letting me win. Why? I would much rather have someone be themselves and show they are GOOD at something, then pretend they suck just to make me feel better.
- Wine and Dine me at a classy restaurant. We are talking Market Street Oyster bar or better here.. Classy does NOT mean Chili's, Applebees, etc.
- Dress nice from head to toe... girls notice everything and yes we judge you by it.. make a good impression.
- Be funny.
- Don't brag. I honestly don't really care if you are best friends with Kyle Korver (some girls might, but it doesn't do anything for me) Other people do not make you who you are... I want to get to know you; not the superstar persona of you.
- I don't want to hear about your ex.
- Don't tell me you like me; if you don't.
- "We'll be in touch..." Should not be said.. it automatically means we won't be.
- Asking me out at last minute is pointless - I've most likely already got plans
- Don't be "Mr. Indecisive" - You asked me out on the date, don't look to me for all of the decisions. If you couldn't plan it all; you better be quick on your feet and make it up as you go along. The whole "I don't care" game gets old FAST.
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