Since when did "hooking up" mean that things were "serious" between you and that person? I know everyone doesn't agree with it - however casual sex between two people does happen and is OK in my book; if both parties understand that is all it is.
If having sex with someone is something that you hold more importance to- don't you think that is something that should be expressed before you hook up with someone? I mean really.. how old are we now.. why is it so hard for people to communicate where they stand on that issue?
And even more so, if they do hold more importance to it then why would they willingly hook up with you and then say "I never meant for us to get so serious"
First of all.. I didn't know that having sex meant we were serious, I was under the impression we were just having fun together and happened to casually hook up. (Let me just say this happened after several times of hanging out, making out, and being VERY flirty with each other)
I do give the guy credit for having good character and coming out and saying why he all the sudden became "distant" and that he hoped we could still be friends.
Openness, honesty, communication are KEY in any type of relationship you enter what is so hard about that?
It would cause so fewer problems if people were just upfront
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Let's just say that after this (maybe 2 weeks later) I found out the real reason he pulled the "too serious" card..
He decided to GET SERIOUS with another girl.. haha..
Seriously men.. we are adults.. I can handle the truth..
You should have just came out and said.. "ya know I've been having a good time with you, but there is someone I'm more interested"
Better than trying to "save face"
Do people even know how to be honest anymore?
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